Quotes about Blame
When you become defensive, blame others, and do not accept and surrender to the moment, your life meets resistance. Any time you encounter resistance, recognize that if you force the situation, the resistance will only increase. You don't want to stand rigid like a tall oak that cracks and collapses in the storm. Instead, you want to be flexible, like a reed that bends with the storm and survives.
- Deepak Chopra
There is nothing will kill a man so soon as having nobody to find fault with but himself.
- George Eliot
Blame is a change-avoidance strategy.
- Andy Stanley
People are not afraid of failure, they're afraid of blame.
- Seth Godin
I never blame failure - there are too many complicated situations in life - but I am absolutely merciless toward lack of effort.
- F Scott Fitzgerald
All this is to say that it's not your fault that you're fucked up. It's your fault if you stay fucked up, but the foundation of your fuckedupedness is something that's been passed down through generations of your family, like a coat of arms or a killer cornbread recipe, or in my case, equating confrontation with heart failure. When
- Jen Sincero
She might have been living yet, if it had not been for him!
- Emily Bronte
If you choose, you are free; if you choose, you need blame no man—accuse no man. All things will be at once according to your mind and according to the Mind of God.
- Epictetus
If you wish it, you are free; if you wish it, you'll find fault with no one, you'll cast blame on no one, and everything that comes about will do so in accordance with your own will and that of God.
- Epictetus
As long as you honour material things, direct your anger at yourself rather than the thief or adulterer.
- Epictetus
Whenever we do something wrong, then, from now on we will not blame anything except the opinion on which it's based; and we will try to root out wrong opinions with more determination than we remove tumours or infections from the body.
- Epictetus
Patience is an ever present alternative to the mind's endemic restlessness and impatience. Scratch the surface of impatience and what you will find lying beneath it, subtly or not so subtly, is anger. It's the strong energy of not wanting things to be the way they are and blaming someone (often yourself) or something for it.
- Jon Kabat-Zinn