Quotes about Self-discovery
When I look through God's eyes at my lost self and discover God's joy at my coming home, then my life may become less anguished and more trusting.
- Henri Nouwen
But human withdrawal is a very painful and lonely process, because it forces us to face directly our own condition in all its beauty as well as misery.
- Henri Nouwen
There are many elder sons and elder daughters who are lost while still at home.
- Henri Nouwen
It is as if we have been wandering in a foreign land looking for peace and purpose in our lives and a true sense of who we are. Jesus stands in our midst and beckons us home so that we can be restored to our true selves.
- Henri Nouwen
Solitude is the furnace of transformation.
- Henri Nouwen
The journey from teaching about love to allowing myself to be loved proved much longer than I realized.
- Henri Nouwen
And still, I knew that I would never be able to live the great commandment to love without allowing myself to be loved without conditions or prerequisites. The journey from teaching about love to allowing myself to be loved proved much longer than I realized.
- Henri Nouwen
And for you who will make this spiritual journey with me, I hope and pray that you too will discover within yourselves not only the lost children of God, but also the compassionate mother and father that is God.
- Henri Nouwen
For as long as you can remember, you have been a pleaser, depending on others to give you an identity. You need not look at that only in a negative way. You wanted to give your heart to others, and you did so quickly and easily. But now you are being asked to let go of all these self-made props and trust that God is enough for you. You must stop being a pleaser and reclaim your identity as a free self.
- Henri Nouwen
In solitude we become aware that our worth is not the same as our usefulness." - Out of Solitude
- Henri Nouwen
Solitude is the furnace in which transformation takes place.
- Henri Nouwen
Spiritual formation is not about steps or stages on the way to perfection. It's about the movements from the mind to the heart through prayer in its many forms that reunite us with God, each other, and our truest selves.
- Henri Nouwen