Quotes about Comparison
We all desperately want something that we see the Lord giving to other women. We see Him blessing them in the very areas He's withholding from us. And while these other women may not be obnoxious like Peninnah in their reminders of their blessing and our lack, it's increasingly painful each time we see a reminder. We look at them, and we feel set aside.
- Lysa TerKeurst
comparison steals celebration. And a life void of celebration is a life empty.
- Lysa TerKeurst
If I look at my dreams, desires, and hopes for the future as coming from a place of scarcity and the world's limited supply, it will constantly feed the notion that someone else's success is a threat to mine.
- Lysa TerKeurst
We get empty when we park our minds on comparison thoughts and wallow in them.
- Lysa TerKeurst
I'm not who that guy says I am. I'm not who that girl says I am. I'm not who social media likes and comments say I am. I'm not who the grades, to-do lists, messes, and mess ups say I am. I'm not who the scale says I am or the sum total of what my flaws say I am. I'm going to stop flirting with the unstable things of this world so I can fall completely in love with You. I am loved. I am held. I am Yours. I am forever Yours.
- Lysa TerKeurst
Envy first brings depression: "My life isn't as good as yours." Then comes offense: "Why should you have what I don't have?" Which degrades into hatred.
- John Eldredge
We're all living in the shadow of that infamous icon, "The Proverbs 31 Woman," whose life is so busy I wonder, when does she have time for friendships, for taking walks, or reading good books? Her light never goes out at night? When does she have sex? Somehow she has sanctified the shame most women live under, biblical proof that yet again we don't measure up. Is that supposed to be godly—that sense that you are a failure as a woman?
- John Eldredge
When each thing is unique in itself, there can be no comparison made.... There is only this strange recognition of present otherness.
- DH Lawrence
Your levellers wish to level down as far as themselves but they cannot bear levelling up to themselves.
- Samuel Johnson
Envy, bleating 'I'm as good as you', is the hotbed of Fascism.
- CS Lewis
Let America first praise mediocrity even, in her children, before she praises... the best excellence in the children of any other land.
- Herman Melville
Jealous leaders measure their success by the failure of others.
- Andy Stanley