I had three rules for my players: No profanity. Don't criticize a teammate. Never be late.

Let those who think I have said too little and those who think I have said too much, forgive me and let those who think I have said just enough thank God with me.

A quarrel between friends, when made up, adds a new tie to friendship.

Let me say before I go any further that I forgive nobody. I wish them all an atrocious life and then the fires and ice of hell and in the execrable generations to come an honoured name.

Pray for your adversaries; remember how many thousands of talents of sins your Master hath forgiven you. Forgive you, therefore, your fellow-servant's one talent.

Every time I see high-trust cultures, I see a lessening of adversarialism.

Patience is the ability to suffer a long time under the mistreatment of others without growing resentful or bitter.

Surely it is much more generous to forgive and remember, than to forgive and forget.

In the Holy Relationship, it's understood that we all have unhealed places, and that healing is the purpose of our being with another person. We don't hide our weaknesses, but rather we understand that the relationship is a context for healing through mutual forgiveness.

How a person seems to show up for us is intimately connected to how we choose to show up for them.

Let's forgive the past and who we were then. Let's embrace the present and who we're capable of becoming. Let's surrender the future and watch miracles unfold.

But peace isn't determined by circumstances outside us. Peace stems from forgiveness. Pain doesn't stem from the love we're denied by others, but rather from the love that we deny them.